I often wonder if Women marry men just to bitch about them. Why do they stay married to a man that they are constantly complaining about? Martyr? Self Loathing? What? Sense of Worth maybe. If you are married and complaining, especially in public for us all to hear, about your partner, spouse. THEN leave them. You may the PROBLEM.  If you Find Yourself talking negative of your significant other, then going home and laying next to them. You are the Problem.  Make a Change or don’t. Stop Slamming your Partner.

   You are meant to be happy, at peace, and if you have so much stuff that you can’t find a way to like the person you are with and not degrad them and you along with it in public, then you need to be single, go within and FIX it then perhaps try again with someone more suited to you.

     If you are staying for the alleged sake of the children, THINK AGAIN. It is best to be happy, not bitchy. Best to have self esteem and not to fight or degrade each other. It is not best for force yourself to stay married for the sake of the children. They learn how to love from you. If you stay in a loveless bitchy, backstabbing, loveless, lustless marriage, well that’s for you and your own insecurities and not about your children being happy. If you don’t like him ladies, leave him and STOP bitching about him in the cafe to your relatives, girlfriend and especially your children. ~ Reverend Crystal Cox